In straight Provo:
- Introduction--You meet someone from your ward or through a friend
- First date-- Double-date picnic on temple grounds
- Topics of Interest-- Weird professors. Annoying roommates. Taylor Swift.
- Doorstep scene-- Maybe a kiss... if you're lucky
- Second date-- Just about equivalent to a marriage proposal
In gay Provo:
- Introduction-- You meet someone through Connexion or Craigslist
- First date-- Dinner, then sex. Shower together. Then sex again.
- Topics of Interest-- Coming out story. Feelings on the Church. "John? OMG I dated him too..."
- Doorstep scene-- Take him home the next morning
- Second date-- A second date? What's that?