tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post4702207554040783223..comments2023-05-05T08:45:56.242-07:00Comments on The Gaily Universe: To Catch a CheaterUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-6269670499332976152010-08-06T00:30:26.849-07:002010-08-06T00:30:26.849-07:00LOL, now it makes sense why he deleted his connexi...LOL, now it makes sense why he deleted his connexion profile and made a new one.AKLDShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10023837322404799788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-34824774609718263702010-08-04T12:37:15.918-07:002010-08-04T12:37:15.918-07:00Oh how i love this.Oh how i love this.Chasehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11498402779628519776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-49889503455134931852010-08-01T16:57:27.898-07:002010-08-01T16:57:27.898-07:00This actually clears up some questions I had a few...This actually clears up some questions I had a few months ago when his connexion profile was outed on a gossip blog.A Gay Mormon Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02366029507118022319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-53227175318612823782010-08-01T11:49:29.748-07:002010-08-01T11:49:29.748-07:00Oh, the tangled web we weave.
I once unintentiona...Oh, the tangled web we weave.<br /><br />I once unintentionally exposed or "outed" a friend of mine who was cheating on her husband. But at the same time I didn't know she was cheating either. <br /><br />It was back in college. I was talking with a guy I had met in the computer lab. We discovered that we both knew the same girl. He then told me that they went out the other night. And I said something like "really, you know she's married don't you?" <br /><br />He turned beat red and stormed away. <br /><br />Apparently he thought he was "porking" a potential new girlfriend. <br /><br />Drama ensues. <br /><br />I ended up right in the middle of it.<br /><br />Awkward.TGDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01787370282987477869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-40955623240218314942010-08-01T08:53:35.882-07:002010-08-01T08:53:35.882-07:00Rob's point is well taken. I do suppose the s...Rob's point is well taken. I do suppose the seducing Twinky while preparing for a wedding is a bit over the top. One would hope that this young man could at least keep his commitment for the short period of a Mormon engagement.<br /><br />But, as I've grown older, my ability to have compassion for an unfortunate soul like this doesn't depend on my perception of his moral rectitude, or lack thereof. Once again, he is the one who will ultimately suffer most for his lies.<br /><br />Twinky, I hope you understand that I wasn't being critical of what you did. I'm sure I would have done the same thing you did faced with the same situation at your age. Again, I wonder if your "outing" of him wasn't a nudge towards rethinking his actions.ControllerOnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04161975934417545717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-87692260683551719732010-08-01T08:11:32.931-07:002010-08-01T08:11:32.931-07:00It's one thing to struggle with the conflictin...It's one thing to struggle with the conflicting pressures of being gay and married IF you got married out of an honest sense of duty and trying to do the right thing and were trying to keep your commitments.<br /><br />It's quite another to cheat with another guy while you're engaged to a girl and then keep up the infidelity after you've promised otherwise, with a false identity and other ruses. On that I agree with Evan. The guy deserved everything you did.Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02992194211469009236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-34727390246816238072010-08-01T01:25:15.964-07:002010-08-01T01:25:15.964-07:00Well, I have a little different take on it. Yes, ...Well, I have a little different take on it. Yes, he is doing wrong. For himself, for his gay acquaintances and, most especially, for his wife. He and she will ultimately have some pretty nasty consequences from his lies.<br /><br />But before we judge him too harshly, let's remember he's human. And he's caught in that impossible world. I can only guess at the pressure he felt to do the "right" thing and get married, have a family, yada yada yada. <br /><br />I'm not defending his actions, which will only bring him misery. I just can't help but empathize with his plight and the incredible pressure he feels.<br /><br />On the other hand, perhaps, Twinky, you did him a favor. At some point he might sense that the embarrassment and discomfort he obviously felt is only a small dose of what is coming if he doesn't right the ship sooner rather than later.ControllerOnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04161975934417545717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-424949356978049487.post-5434599430235737542010-08-01T00:27:08.549-07:002010-08-01T00:27:08.549-07:00He totally deserved it simply due to the fact that...He totally deserved it simply due to the fact that he is married. I would have done the same thing. What a prick... that's something I just can't respect at all.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01226208429329312021noreply@blogger.com